Well, that saying that we hear from time to time or even see stuck to truck bumpers, in social media posts, is true. “life is very simple, we are the ones who complicate it”. In fact, I’ll go further, it’s adults who complicate it, even when it comes to making friends, with children it’s different, it’s just looking at each other and asking – will you be my friend? – sometimes they don’t even ask, they leave Playing like best friends…it seems like we’ve slowly lost that naivety, that lightness. How many times do we forget to say a simple apology, acknowledge a mistake or simply say thank you. Well, it turns out that these super simple attitudes can make all the difference in your day or in other people’s lives.
Attitudes that can transform your life
1 – Show yourself available
It may seem silly to some, but the simple fact of asking for help is very difficult for certain people, and not always out of pride, often out of fear of being in the way, which means they end up getting more and more confused. It is very important, whenever you notice that someone may need your help, sometimes something so simple, always highlight the fact that “you have time for them”, in short, be happy to be able to do something for the person. It’s important for the person to feel that you really want to collaborate, and not that you’re just trying to act superior.
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2 – Do it yourself
Believe me, a simple programming on an alarm clock, an online payment, a lesson plan or something like that, which always ends up being transferred to others, see how doing it yourself, that is, learning to fish, can give you a certain feeling (so good) of freedom, of not depending on anyone.
3 – Show your affection
For your mother, your brother, your friend, your co-worker, especially if they are more closed-minded people, you will see how this simple behavior can change an entire relationship, or at the very least, that person’s day, oh…and of course, yours also. Try saying how much you like a friend at that moment when you notice that she is a little sad (or very happy too!). Anyway, start not being afraid to reveal your feelings.
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4 – Ask for help
Ok, you’re the type who likes to do everything alone, yes, but you usually end your day frustrated or tired… yes, of course you can, like carrying a heavy suitcase on top of size 12 heels, talking to a customer while buying a gift for his mother, however, hey…good news!!! IT IS NOT NECESSARY! Believe me, it’s not by doing everything alone or trying to do it that you will give the impression of maturity, but rather by seeing your limits, embracing your vulnerability.
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5 – Give thanks
But thank them willingly, truly, from the heart, even if you don’t feel comfortable with praise, feel embarrassed, let it make you feel like you’re the center of attention; If it is a favor provided, thank them even more effusively, try to reciprocate the gesture, because in any case, otherwise it will give the impression of neglect. Gratitude is always welcome.
6 – Don’t think you own the truth
Even if you are a teacher, a boss, believe me, it doesn’t matter if you are a team manager, listen to opinions, rethink your concepts, life is an eternal learning process, make room for criticism, accept it, or even justify your position with arguments, not with your position, and you will see improvements.
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7 – Recognize your mistakes
Couldn’t meet the deadline for submitting that survey? Didn’t finish the boss’s report? Admit it. Admitting a mistake does not make anyone lose respect or trust in you, only lies have that power. They will probably even admire your stance and look for a solution together. Show that you are not afraid to admit when you make a mistake or stumble.
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8 – Eulogy
Who doesn’t like recognition? So, praise your daughter’s cute surprise, the grade she got on the test, an attitude from her boyfriend. The sincere compliment serves as a kind of positive criticism, is a nice gesture and acts as an incentive for the other person to repeat the nice attitude.
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9 – Apologize
Who doesn’t make mistakes in this life? Every day, we all make mistakes and there will be no shortage of reasons to apologize. Sometimes a simple sharper word, a mean comment, in short, if you mess up, apologize. However, don’t apologize by blaming the other person, like “But you have to understand that I did this because you…”, apologize by showing regret and that’s it. So, say that you made a mistake, admit it, don’t justify yourself by pointing out someone else’s mistakes, this will only make it worse and show that you don’t regret anything. You will see how much lighter it will be, good lighter!
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