According to a scholar of Eastern culture, who studies the cultures and experiences of Indian sages, in one of his articles he reflected on what a mystery is and what should be told to others. After all, in times of social media almost nothing is kept secret anymore.
We have separated some of these secrets into a list, keep reading and see what should become a mystery in your life from now on.
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1. Solidarity acts
Acts of kindness and solidarity should not be shared. An act of solidarity is a very good thing in today’s world, and for this reason you should keep it as a precious asset.
Good deeds should not be boasted. Even because this type of attitude quickly becomes arrogance, and no one wants to have this characteristic.
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2. Don’t show your severity
No one needs to know about your dietary restrictions, your problems with sleep, finances, romantic relationships, etc.
Physical severity is only beneficial when it is in harmony with the psychic side. And even then, no one needs to know.
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3. Don’t talk about your future plans
Avoid talking about these types of things until they come true. There are no perfect projects, in fact they are full of weaknesses, which can make failures even easier.
And you don’t want anyone demanding something from you that you really wanted, but unfortunately didn’t work out. So keep it a secret.
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4. Spread your knowledge
Unless you work in education, it’s not really worth sharing your knowledge. It is yours alone and there is no reason to share it with anyone.
Only reveal it if it is really necessary, but not just for yourself, for others as well.
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5. Don’t talk about your courage
Everyone goes through a lot of things every day. The days are full of tests and obstacles that everyone faces as best they can.
Some people face these difficulties with great courage and no one sees the overcoming they go through.
External difficulties are generally rewarded, while internal ones no one sees, and no one gets anything in return. For this reason, people tend to boast a lot about the act.
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6. Don’t be negative
No one likes to hear bad words, negativity and things that bring us down. This gets in the way of plans, not to mention it’s very unpleasant to listen to someone complaining all the time.
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7. Don’t share domestic conflicts
The less you talk about your family problems, the easier it is to overcome them. From the moment you are arguing with someone, you already discharge all the negative energy that has accumulated within the dialogue process.
If you keep talking about it with several people, it will become even more true.
When it comes to relationships, there are still some secrets that do not need to be revealed to others.
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8. Intimate relationships and sex life
Telling other people what your partner likes most in bed is something very intimate and no one would like to be that exposed to another person. Avoid these types of comments and be more discreet.
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9. Keep Fears a Secret
Men are more reluctant to show their fears, if your partner has shared them with you than he is more panicked, don’t go around shouting from the rooftops.
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10. Irritating habits
Everyone has flaws, you wouldn’t want yours lying around. So don’t spread anyone else’s.
According to research, when you reveal someone else’s most disgusting and irritating habits, people will start to associate that person with something disgusting.
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11. Frustrations with salary or career
Another secret that must be kept. Do not reveal to others if your partner is going through a moment like this.
It is not at all pleasant for a person if others feel sorry or pity. Help in other ways, spreading other people’s frustration around doesn’t help at all.
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12. Mistakes made in the past
For obvious reasons, this kind of thing shouldn’t be brought into the present, it’s in the past.
It’s already boring to bring this up again in any discussion when the subject isn’t even related to what happened, let alone move on from the subject.
Preserve your relationship and your individuality. Revealing a secret to someone very close to you can be interesting, but you can’t do it with just anyone.
Revealing other people’s secrets is also not up to you to know whether the information should be passed on. If it’s not yours, don’t pass it on.
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