Former BBB Flay recently accused her ex-husband of neglecting her son, Bernardo, as well as not paying the boy’s child support.
Flay, ex-BBB from the 2020 edition, recently made a long outburst on his Twitter account. Last Monday night (10), the woman wrote a text about how parents should be present in their children’s lives. In this sense, the singer reported a worrying problem for several Brazilian families, which is the absence of a father figure. After all, it is common to even see children who do not even have their father’s name on their birth records.
Whatever the case, Flay says he never thought he would go through this. Even so, Bernardo’s mother, aged 4, does not maintain a friendly relationship with her son’s father. In any case, she had never shown or told about any family conflict to her audience, at least not until then. After listening to a conversation, the ex-BBB decided to speak out, after discovering that her ex-partner’s family criticized the house where Bernardo lives with his mother, as well as the quality of life.
“I never thought I would go through what so many mothers go through, but I am (going through it),” she began. I just heard a conversation from Bernardo’s father’s family (who never looked after him or gave him a pension in Bernardo’s 4 years of life), putting a lot of things into the child’s head, that his father’s house is better than this one, putting a lot of defects here and in São Paulo, inviting him to go live there, among many other things that demoralize the lonely mother that I have always been”.
Flay opens up about her ex-husband not paying child support
Furthermore, Flay also highlighted scenes she faced while she was still with the man, such as moments of neglect from her ex-husband towards her son, as well as the little care he took with her postpartum. In it, women are naturally more sensitive. “I always pretend to have dementia but this time it was too much, so lately my son has been saying he doesn’t like this apartment (he loved it)”, continued the ex-BBB.
“When Bê was born, my surgery had a complication. It opened and it took more than two months to heal, because it didn’t matter that the father was by his side, he barely held his son. He (Bernardo) cried at night, I asked his father to put him on my lap so I could breastfeed and he pretended to sleep”.
Soon after, Flay spoke about how she gave up her career to take care of her family, but even so, she continued to be treated poorly by many around her. “When he was older, his father thought it was bad when the boy’s porridge ran out and I asked for more. In addition to being constantly humiliated in his family’s home, after stopping everything in my career to raise my son. In addition to being treated badly by him.”
Father of Flayslane’s son is accused of neglecting the child
Finally, the ex-BBB came to the subject of her son’s child support. Her outburst continued when she questioned the man’s lack of interest and commitment in participating in Bernardo’s school life. She also highlighted the issue of exposing their relationship on social media.
“That, among other things, was the biggest shock I had and made me want to change my life. I didn’t want my son to have an uncertain future and to grow up in the face of so much fighting at home, I separated from him and decided to do something to change my son’s destiny. Today, thank God he has a healthy home. But today the guy wants to be the big daddy on the internet. He loves to take the kid ready and post passionate selfies, even though I asked him to pay half of the baby’s school fees with me and he refused. ‘There are no conditions’”.
To finish the text, Flayslane asked a question. “When the child’s mother has money, the father has no obligation to provide support, even if he spends horrendous money on parties, drinks, hotels and expensive trips like he does for anyone who wants to see? In short, the faces of certain males don’t even twitch and I’m just disgusted and ashamed of the father I found for my son.”
